The SUPERFRIENDS Roster:

Now, everyone has incredible friends. I always say that friends are chosen family. And in my case, I mean it! I have some ultra cool world, jet-stting friends. (We have been to London over 10 times, Paris, Puerto Rico, Spain.... whatever.... ;) We have been friends for over 15 years. We have gotten into a lot of .... fun ....

My best friends are the brothers & sisters destiny forgot to give me.

These Superfriends are the quinticential members of the FUN League of America! They are each exceptional individuals. They are a presence and a forceful being. And you know me, I am NOT prone to exaggerating.... at all....

Now, let's discuss some of the core Superfriend members in Kincade's life!! (** Note to readers- Kincade is my maiden name. For me to use it implies that you know the real me. Kincade is a persona... an alter ego who gets blamed for my silliness when the "real" JKU is cleaning up Kincade's mess.) - If I start using that term... especially when combined with Vodka or other festivities...... then look out!! My entertainment factor has set in, and we are in for a ride.... a magic carpet ride....

Now, although I am ready to hang my emotional fodder out for the national neighborhood to see, my friends and family did not sign up for that. Each Superfriend needs an alter ego... so I, unfortunately cannot reveal their true identities. I will let them do that, when and if, they are ready......

Just thinking about a friend makes you want to do a happy dance, because a friend is somene who loves you in spite of your faults.-Charles M. Schulz

I don't need a certain number of friends, just a number of friends I can be certain of.

Friendship is born at the moment when one person says to another, "What? You too? I thought I was the only one."

But like any epic character, they deserve a story - a story of their greatness..... A story that friends will quote when they are critiquing their own friendships.... When you need a standard of coolness or friendshipesque love... the superfriends should be your model!!

The silver friend knows your present and the gold friend knows all of your past dirt and glories. Once in a blue moon there's someone who knows it all, someone who knows and accepts you unconditionally, someone who's there for life.-Jill McCorkle

Here is our story......

The characters featured in the Superfriends series includes the primary characters: Superman, Batman and Robin, Wonder Woman, and Aquaman. Other members include: Wonder Twins, Green Lantern, The Flash, Black Vulcan, Black Lightning, Apache Chief, Samurai, and El Dorado!!!! - These last few were intended to be international heroes and were created in order to encourage racial and cultural diversity.- or so Wikapedia states..... But those of us core members know that they were there since the beginning. Affirmative action just was not as prominent in the Dukes of Hazzard Years....

Boy Mexican... ** So... ongoing question... answer IF YOU DARE!!!! what are we discussing in THIS picture?!?!?!?

Okay... 1st thing you need to know about the Superfriends is that there are a few people that fall under the same category... but they fill the version in their own unique way... so although there may be a few guys under Superman or a few girls under Wonder Woman... we really fill the title with our OWN persona... and we each LOVE falling under the same category... it's not a down play... it's a SePeRaTiOn AnXiEtY thing.....

"Up in the sky, look! It's a bird! It's a plane! It's Superman!"

There are MANY Supermen in my life. Supermen consist of the male friends that I have that know how to work a cape!!! The Cape can CLOAK them for sure!!! ;) It can also shield them from falling puke from Wonder Woman after a LONG night of flip cup. They can fly and they each have 1 small source of kryptonite.... in their case - women.

These men are the BEST brothers and friends in the WORLD!! Not bro's like.. ewwww.. gross.. he's like my brother... but more like,... through the term of my life... he has been a true brotha from anotha motha!!! They love me cause we are friends!! Screw you "When Harry Met Sally"!!

These guys are in HIGH DEMAND!!! They are SO perfect in the male spectrum, that I almost feel guilty having these guys as my close and personal friends. ALMOST ... but not really at ALL!! ( Did I mention I LOVE eye candy!!! and good hugs. Who is gonna say no to a good hug?? How about a FANTASTIC hug??? A DELUXE hug?!?!?)

Next up: Batman!!!!!!

As a young adult, Batman worked to fulfill avenging his parents vow, by traveling the world to learn from masters of various defense disciplines. Eventually he became an exceptional escape artist, master of martial arts, acrobatics, science, technology, boxing, disguises, criminology and detective skills.

White Batman ...... I love White Batman. He is a REAL man. He loves everyone... even me when I am irrational, scared or angry!!!! He is so secure in himself that he was the Jack living with Janet and Chrissy... and all 3 were men. He is SO secure that he loves gay men as much as I do. He loves me ALMOST as much as I do to.... YAY me!!!

He understands me better than I do. He loves me and loves his friends as hard as I do. We are lucky that A LOT of those friends are the same. We did not make these friends at the same time... nor have we had the SAME experiences with these friends. But, when you and your partner can love the same people, trust each other implicitly, and smile and hug no matter what.... **deep Teen Beat sigh and awe** THAT is my idea of love.


Black Batman.....

He is just like white Batman, but he tastes and smells like chocolate. He smiles with lips that you wish you could kiss. He looks at you with eyes that you want to see joy in forever. He is the you that you wish you could be. He is the most beautiful person that I know inside and out. He has my utmost respect, love and admiration for life. I want to grow up to be JUST like him. Like Mary Poppins... She is almost perfect in every way......

Plus, Batman has the Batcave. Now, personally, I have been to the batcave. MANY, MANY times. Most of my friends have. It's legendary. If you have never been in the batcave with "The Bat" himself. Well, than you haven't lived. Honestly.

The Batcave is where you sit, listen, and think. It's where you learn that you wish the world was more diversified. It's where the best ideas happen. Inadvertantly, it's positively affected, literally hundreds of thousands of people. Don't doubt the batcave!! EVER!!

It's where you learn how to create a shield of understanding and patience. It's where the tools that the universe gave you teach you how to understand diversity and how THAT is what makes the USA turn.... although you wish it turned slowly....

And then there is Robin...... who likes to wear tights and shows his bear thighs....

Hey!! IF YOU WANT ME TO STOP PICKING ON YOU - GET AN F-ING FACEBOOK PROFILE!!! LOL!!

**Enter Super Twins!!!**

My wondertwin is a FABULOUS man who is my emotional, peer and soulmate. We are 2 souls that found each other during our "awkward - need a friend - need to love and have someone love me back - NO MATTER WHAT (way the Earth is rotating....;) !" Phase of our lives.

He is the Wil to my Grace. The Jack to my Karen. He is the be-all-end-all ultimate twin relationship. Together, we can - and have - accomplished anything. Apart there is a hollow dug out missing piece. We grew up together in ways that NOONE can understand.

There are too many heart aches, celebrations, mistakes, accomplishments, and understandings for anyone to permiate a realtionship like this. Stand toe-to-toe and listen to things you don't want to hear from your best friend!!! - And STILL love her, AND respect him AFTER they say it. And you can understand a microfiber of US.

Men will enter in and out of our lives... but we will ALWAYS remain true to each other! Love so hard that you cry from joy, laugh out of appreciation or excitement!!, Say the words: EVERYTHING IS GOING TO BE OKAY!! And have it means more than anything in the WORLD!! That was our first year together. 15 years later... It's like Gremlins that got wet, or fed after midnight.....

I wish you ALL friends like mine.

Wonder Women:

Because I am a woman, I must make unusual efforts to succeed. If I fail, no one will say, "She doesn't have what it takes"; They will say, "Women don't have what it takes".Clare Boothe Luce

The practice of putting women on pedestals began to die out when it was discovered that they could give orders better from there.Betty Grable

When people tell me a woman can never be president I say: "We'll never know unless we try".

These are the friends most tomboy-esque girls don't think exist. A "REAL" girl who is your friend, not a threat, and loves and supports YOU. You can tell her anything. She won't lie to you.. as a matter of fact... she is your FUPA, thong, bra-strap, nipple peaking, - orange belt wearing safety patrol watchwoman!! Yup. Ladies, I found a few of these elusive women. Just a few...

Outward beauty is not enough; to be attractive a woman must use words, wit, playfulness, sweet-talk, and laughter to transcend the gifts of Nature.Petronius

One is not born a woman, one becomes one. - Simone de Beauvoir

Women might be able to fake orgasms. But men can fake a whole relationship.

"For all those who hated???? It just made us more creative." - Missy Elliott - The Bitch Is Back

I am my own woman. - Evita Perón

I expect Woman will be the last thing civilized by Man. - George Meredith

Now, I used to be one of those girls who boasted, " I usually hang out with guys. I have more guys friends. Girls are SO petty. They ALL talk about each other and none of them are REAL!" Then I met my wonderwomen.

There's a little bit of hooker in every woman. A little bit of hooker and a little bit of God. - Sarah Miles

Then - I realized, to be a REAL woman.... like Pinocchio becoming a real boy.... you HAD to cut the strings. You can't let someone else be your fate creator. You have to be your own woman. There is NOTHING like a woman who has come into her own..... The energy... the magnetic draw... the EVElike stature.....

Treasure what mom taught you. She is the original Goddess... Take solace in what she taught you... BUT - be your own woman. Find your own path. Make your own way. It is then.... and ONLY then .... that a STRONG mother knows she did a good job.

When a mother KNOWS that she created TRUE - Wonder Women... she can rest easy. Beyond, environment, beyond gene pool; when a mother creates modern girls, girls who question, girls who test, girls who SHOUT their emotions from the mountaintop... THEN and ONLY then... can she relax, know she filled HER purpose in the world... and put herself completely into the next generation.

Because... no matter WHAT your ego tells you... the true purpose - goal - in being a REAL woman is to strive to make each generation of superfriends stronger.... more aware.... confident.... and respectful of the human nature. In the circle of life.... The women in the family are the HUB. Their friends are the spokes. The men are the rim and the children are the glue that hold them ALL together.